what’s YOUR definition of dirty ?
we humans love words. for a lot of reasons, not least of all that we no longer have the skills to communicate any other way. words are our means of conveying to others what we are thinking and feeling. and we have all had moments in our lives (albeit rarely) when words were not needed at all ...
... but for most of us, sex isn’t one of those moments. nor should it be.
as a teenager, the aural sexual images i collected from various media were based on filth. at the time, my fragile self-esteem couldn’t conceive of ever enjoying being called a whore ... but i hadn’t counted on one day being a secure woman in love and having my first real orgasm triggered by that very event.
call it naiveté, but i managed to avoid the “post-coital analysis/partner attack” following such utterances and instead landed squarely in “free and complete sexual expression is incredible” territory.
where i remain to this day. without a single regret. come on in (pardon the pun). the water is fine.
