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Even with a husband at home who's very hands on and helpful having a baby is really hard - Goodluck.
I had a little girl six months ago - my first - I'm definitely no expert on anything but if I can I'd like to help if you have any questions - Joeuser is great for questions about parenting - there's lots of parents on here.
Plus I'm not American but one of the best resources I've had as a new mum and before as a pregnant woman is baby.com
it's a community newsletter forum place for expectant mothers and parents to get help with questions they''ve had - generally if you've thought of it then someone's already asked it.