I also think that he's jumping too fast, not because you're not worth it, but because... it's too fast.

Maybe you should express your reservations to him, tell him that you want to stay in touch and continue your conversations, but that you're not sure that you're ready for a committed relationship with him. I doubt that you've done anything to convince him that you're already going steady or engaged or anything like that, so if he jumps on the "you were leading me on" bandwagon, you can safely assume he's just full of it (emotional immaturity, that is). You're right, you can't be responsible for how he's feeling.

Good luck. Honesty is the best policy, even if it seems like it sucks at the time.

Actually, I just moved too. And, since I just got a steady job, and I'm accepted into the master's program here, I don't plan on moving any time soon. Plus, I don't want to live with someone before I marry him. Call me old fashioned, but I've always felt that way. (Oh, and the bit about the date to the Harry Potter movie... very funny)



Well, this gets a little tricky to explain, but I'm going to try. I've warned him that I will be moving very slowly, and that I refuse to rush into anything -- physical or emotional. He says he's fine with that. However, he keeps telling me that he likes me and wants to make sure that I know he's interested. In a way, I understand what he's doing, and I don't think he means to pressure me, but... well, I don't know how to explain. I've told him that I will be going slow, so if he rushes in, then it's not my fault... right?



The thing is, he isn't requiring anything from me. He doesn't ask if I like him, or stuff like that, he just reassures me that he's interested. Plus, I'm kind of interested myself, I'm just not sure yet. He knows that. I've told him that I can't make any decisions until I meet him. But, you are right by saying sooner is better than latter. I need to put a little distance between us, I think.

Ok, fair point about the LD thing too. I won't even try with someone more than five hours away. I've done 2.5 and that was hard enough.

Gideon -- Sorry, I thought I had specified that "shower guy" aka John, was just a friend. I'm really not his type, and he's not really mine. He's a great friend though, and would do anything for me. And, since I read him what you wrote (sorry, couldn't help it. I'm in his room right now) he says you lose major dude points for saying all of that. (obviously kidding) Actually, he puffed up a bit at the compliments. He is a very cool guy, and you are right about him, but he's not a prospect.

Screw him and see how it goes.

There are too many things that could go wrong with that scenario...



Which one? I posted three pictures?

But then, I think they're all cute. Of course, I have strange taste in men.

Yeah but at least you'll have a bit of fun.

hahahaha...Tex, you are so freakin funny!

I wouldn't want to meet him from that picture, but maybe he isn't photogenic?

I dunno.

Good luck..actually I wrote "good lick" hahahaha..thanks Mason, now I have THAT on my mind.

The 2nd guy looks the cutest and looks pretty friendly, but hey, I shouldn't be judging a person from a pic, right?

All I'll say is to continue to stick to your guns about the not-rushing-into-anything part. Hopefully, guy 3 will respect that. Oh, and I wouldn't rule out guy 2...maybe you should see where that leads to.