Kingbee. To me what she did was about the same thing Kerry did when he made his service in Vietnam the centerpiece of his presidential campaign. He threw his service in the ring, then complained that people would dare make it a political issue. She now takes her (more than undestandable) grief and uses it to further a political agenda (calling Prs. Bush to task for the war), now she wonders how anyone could be so callous as to make her grief an issue.
That is the problem with all emotional pleas for political purposes. The people who first broach the subject are the ones politicizing the emotion, then those who look beyond the emotional response are labelled "uncaring".
The other problem with the emotional tactic is, there are just as many people on the other side of the issue who have emotional events behind their opinions also.
"The Grieving Mothers", "The 9/11 Families", "The Troops", "The Vets"... All these labels miss one major point. All grieving mothers, 9/11 family members, and veterans aren't on the same side of the issues. Those who respect the members of each of these groups don't all respect them for the same reasons. I'm a military retiree, so is ColGene. Would you, under any circumstances lump me and him together on issues concerning the war in Iraq or Prs. Bush? If either of us decided to play the "emotion" card, would you agree with one of us or the other based solely on our retiree status?
Plain and simple... If you don't want your emotions to become the issue, don't make them the issue.