I'm sick of this... not even kidding. It's like we're back in junior high but 100 times as bitchy. And, when you blame it on yourself it's even worse. I'm trying not to think about it and pretend it doesn't effect me, but it does. I set up a blind date between two of my friends over a year ago. I guess they kind of hit it off (I didn't intend this) and they were together for a couple months before he cheated on her. I was stupid. Stupid to set up two unstable people together. Really, I was. It wasn't even supposed to go beyond a baseball game.
But, I can't blame myself fully, because the girl agreed hang out with him upon his request (as friends). Now, neither of them are stable by any means and the guy is now completely controlled by his new friend (with benefits). So, the two of them (the ex and the guy) were going to hang out this particular day. She calls to tell him that it won't work out because she has to work unexpectedly. The new "friend", (let's call her Kirsten) answers the phone and says, "he doesn't want to talk to you bitch, so leave us the fuck alone." I guess this upset the other girl so much that she went and threw up. Then she texted back the guy's phone and told the "friend" that she should lose 30 pounds.
Needless to say, the girl went to work, very upset and started recieving phone calls from this girl, and has been getting them ever since Saturday. She's blocked the calls as of recent, supposedly. She kept calling her and texting her.
Now both the ex and the guy are my friends, or at least that's what I'll call them. Last night I called my guy friend, but he didn't answer. He came online a couple minutes later and I talked to the him about it, and he told me to "eat shit" because I was taking his ex's side (which I wasn't). Then he proceeded to tell me that his life is worthless and he seriously wants to kill himself. What the hell am I supposed to say to that? He just told me to eat shit. Damnit, I wanted to punch him, and yet I didn't want him to be all suicidal. He's always wanted attention, and so I tried to deter him. I really don't think he was serious. But he was all like "talk to me. I'm serious, Sarah. Life is worthless. I'm stupid..." I was like you're a fucking idiot. I asked him if his new "friend" had anything to do with this. He said yes, but that he couldn't physically tell her "no" when she wanted to see him. I kept asking him why not. I'm like "so she's like a drug, huh?" and he said that yes she was. There really is nothing I can do if wants to continue to destroy himself by letting her control him.
I believe my chick friend (the ex), and I also want to believe my guy friend. Kirsten is one person I cannot stand. I couldn't before all this shit happened. I saw them in WalMart one day and had to purposely avoid them throughout the whole store or I would have lost it. She's a bitch. Plain and simple. She has reign over this guy's life and it's totally not cool. She threatened to kill my friend (his ex) and keyed her car last night. She's so scared that she parked her car somewhere else.
Kirsten has called me about a month ago from this guy's cell phone and asked me if he was there. I was like "No, who is this?" she just laughed and hung up. His voicemail was "Hi, this is ____'s (insert guys name) cell phone, he's probably busy with me, Kirsten, his love goddess, but if you leave a message, maybe you'll be lucky enough to hear back from him". No, really, she has him totally whipped, and it's pissing me off.
I guess I just need to calm down and realize that they're making their own decisions and choosing to destroy themselves. Yet, there is this small nagging inside that I had something to do with it.
Drama, drama, drama...
~Sarah
