When you say bad spelling... how bad is it?

If your main method of communication will be writing then I'd think carefully. Tex makes an excellent point.  

Sometimes I read posts by other people in different places in which not only is the spelling bad, there is little coherent communication.  If this guy can still get a message across and it is interesting then go for it.  If the spelling is blocking any message getting across, I'd reconsider,

Better idea : Practice being alone and involved in things that interest you without someone of the opposite sex being involved for about a year or so.

Once you are good at being happy and comfy with yourself, you will likely find a whole new class of men available to you.

In all likelihood they will be able to spell.

Many women work most of their lives at attracting men... so much so that it becomes their hobby. Once they have a man they are deprived of their hobby. This causes problems.

The difference here is doing it by choice and not by default. Makes all the difference in the world.

Well, I can't argue with that, but that is really the problem isn't it?

Once you reach the point where "not being alone" is at the top of your hierarchy of needs it tends to degrade every other concern.