Well, here's the scoop. Tommy continually keeps in touch with me, on a daily basis, whether or not I like it. We kind of got into some heated arguements last week, and on one such day, I hung up on him. He left a msg that he'd be coming up in 2 weeks to get his stuff...the furnature and the computer...leaving me with nothing! He would do such a mean thing too. Never once considering all the money I spent on him in the last year.
He's been in the hospital again, for 2 more times since I've written. He had another cath done, and of course they found nothing seriously wrong with him. It's funny because he told ME that he was pretending to have a headache from the nitro just to get percocet. He NEVER gets headaches from the nitro...ever. So, he was in there just to get the drugs, and the fact that he didn't like the food at the shelter, and had had to go out and actually get a job the previous day...so he didn't want to have to go out and work...poor thing.. Then, he goes and gets the prescription filled for percocet that he got...and SELLS half of them. I guess he got $40...now that was 2 days ago...today, he's got $10 left in his pocket. What the heck did he spend $30 on???? Of course, I knew that that money would go through his fingers like water. MY money did. On top of that, I KNOW that's a crime to sell drugs, but I couldn't do anything about it because I didn't know where he went to sell the dumb things. I can't call down there, because he's never given me an address of this place he lives at.
But, I'm starting things in motion to make him unable to get anything. I'm making sure that benefits that he's applying for, he won't get. He's a fraudulant, lazy man. He even asked me to call the phone company and LIE for him. All the collect calls that he's placed on the phone (which have tallied up to nearly $250), he wanted me to call and tell them that I didn't accept them. But, no, I can't do that because it's just lying, fraudulant, and no....I just can't be like him. I told him that. I told him, no I can't lie to them because I just can't. He said 'I can lie to big companies like that, it doesn't bother me." But it bothers ME . Doesn't he see that? No, of course not.
He got mad at me the other day, because after so much of listening to him accuse me of cheating on him...just because he couldn't get through, on the phone, when HE wanted (because I was online, on the phone, or sometimes the phone messes up and doesn't ring at all), he claimed that I was out messing around on him. Yeah, right. I have no car...and I'm leary now about meeting guys on the internet...and I would NOT be having sex right away anyway!!! But, still, it's the fact that he continually accuses me of cheating on him. So, I called him a liar...which he is. But, his whole thing is this..."When have I lied to you?" Well duh, I am not sure exactly when...but if he can lie to other people, why not lie to me?? And I believe he has. I just haven't been able to prove it...but I feel it. I mean, he was hitting me in the hip while I was asleep, pretty much starting right before he left. He did it 3 times. The first two, I wasn't sure because I was sleeping. But, I'd been woke up in the middle of the night, and I knew that he'd hit me...that's what woke me up...and my hip hurt me. The third time, it was early in the morning. I woke up after feeling I'd been hit. His eyes were wide open, and he lifted his hands up and said he was sorry. Each time I mentioned that he'd hit me, he claimed it was because he was sleeping, and didn't know he'd done it. Yeah right. The 3rd time, his eyes were open...and when I told him that ...this is what he said, "It doesn't mean I'm awake when my eyes are open, I was asleep, I don't remember." Hmmm, funny, because after that, he didn't hit me again...and then he left for Phoenix.
Anyway, Friday was a special day for me. It was my 40th birthday...although that wasn't exactly special....turning the big 4-0....it turned out to be one of THE BEST birthdays EVER. A sweet lady, Mary, from the church, asked me, last week what I wanted to do for my birthday. I had been craving Chinese food for sooo long. And I told her that I'd like to do that. I didn't think anything more than that was necessary. But, she told me to think of something else I wanted to do. I hadn't been to a movie in awhile, and the last experience was horrifying (I had gone with Tommy and he was a totally obnoxious person, making a racket that this couple in front of us complained and twice the usher came in and told us that we would be thrown out!!!!!). The day before my birthday, she called me and asked me if I'd thought of something else I'd like to do. I told her that I'd like to see a movie. So ok...that's what we were going to do. It turned out that she came and got me at 10 am...took me out for breakfast, then to the thrift store (when you're poor, you gotta go there to buy clothes..but that's ok)...and then off to the movies where we went to see Princess Diaries 2 - The Royal Wedding. Oh what a good movie!! It's a chick flick, yes...but it was just her and I so...we did something fun!! Tommy wouldn't have ever let me see that just because it's a 'chick flick'. Mary mentioned to the girl at the window that it was my birthday, so I got a free JR popcorn. Then, after the movies we went out for Chinese. We ordered this wine.....oh I wish I could remember what it was...and she toasted me, and we ate. It was such an awesome, awesome day.
Mary's become the mother that my own mother never was. My mother wouldn't have EVER done anything like that. But, Mary, being so sweet, never had a daughter of her own, and has told me that I'm like the daughter that she never had. So, our bond is such a strong, beautiful bond...more than even just a friendship bond. I love her dearly. So, things are looking up for me. I just got to contact a few more people, and let them know that Tommy's a total fraud.
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