You know I have seen many a fight in my short twenty-one years on this earth. Especially in high school, I seen fights in the lunch room, out side, inside, after school, during it, before it, at the foot ball game ( I only went to one game) and out of all the four years I was there I only saw two fights with guys involved, the rest were females.
Its really amazing now that I look at it. It’s like the girls there had unmarked territory. Its not like it really mattered what it was about, boys, boyfriends, same dress same party, and the list goes on.
Though I will say this, there were a few choice words uttered back and forth quite a few times during the hair pulling and punching. Bitch, slut, cunt, whore, two-timing-white-trash-gutter-slut, those were only a few and believe me they go on and on. But the thing that I noticed about all of them was the fact that it was a female pissing in the others territory.
And as bad as this may seem most of the kick ass cat fights were about boys, that’s when the blood was really spilled, a kick to the stomach, a punch to the face, a bloody nose, black eye, shere its as though the girls fought more manly than the guys with their insults and pushes and maybe, just maybe an unlanded punch. Was our high school violent, not really but it was if you were a girl. Other than the fights the only excitement we had was when someone set fire to a metal trash can.
Anyway back to the point…
The best times was when one school slut called another out over a guy she liked, she wasn’t even dating him. But it was the territorial lines that had been crossed, happens within relationships too. Girls would rip their boyfriends new assholes if they even looked at another girl for five seconds. Problem was he didn’t really care about looking, but you know how it is, guy looks then looks away girl sees him, proceeds to rip, its as though its even an audible rip. After that the guy spends the next week trying to make it up. But lets look at it quite rationally, if the guy wanted to be with the other girl he wouldn’t be appologizing that’s for sure. But its like his girlfriend didn’t realize that at the time it happen. So she reems him anyway. If a man is hansom and some bit of confedence he can most likely get any girl he wants. But hey maybe that’s not what he wants. Maybe he’s just observing human nature.
Now that I think about it, I think I had too much time on my hands, especially at lunch. And maybe at home with a mom that watched Montel. Anyway I sometimes think females have this complex to control more than men do. Like they short leash everything including those that love them and they love. And who said I didn’t learn shit in high school.
Adios!!
Love you Sunshine.