LOL, it's only 8:35 pm here.
I think we do tend to gravitate toward people we feel match us. Not that it's ALWAYS that way, but doesn't it stand out when there's an obvious mismatch?
I know, too, that the fact that he's so much better looking tends to make me feel insecure. So I think maybe there's comfort and security in being matched on attractiveness.
I know my husband loves me, and maybe he doesn't see the mismatch, but it's definitely there. He could do a lot better on finding a physically attractive mate, but no one could ever love him more than I do.

I do agree with you on the website, though.